Anime problem!! need help!! (only a pro in anime could help)?

Question

Well let me start, i love anime like all the people in the word, and i think that most people in the world have the same problem as me, well t's like this, when i saw my first anime "Bleach" i loved so much that i wanted to copy them, i was soooo close to get a katana, then iwent to watch one piece, and the closeist thing to copy them is fighting so i thought of taking judo class's (but i didn't, my dad said no) anyway then i went to watch Full matel alchemist, and i was hopeing that my arm would get CHOPPED OFF! so i could put steel in them, then i went to watch d.gray man, nothing in d.gray man that i could copy, now is it? so i went all crazy and tryed to think about it, Then it hit me! am just a guy is copying anime like hell, i won't stop, so i need help, that is why am here, well to tell u the truth, when u answer "go out side, take a bike, and play with ur friend's" well.... my city is no place for children the only place's are, buildings and place's that are being buileded, so i need help
Am just saying... i can't leave anime at all! 60% of what i do every is watch anime, and i love it, the only thing that's keeping me not watching is the "i wanna have a life thing", i could barily get out of my house, ok i do, but when i go out, there is nothing to do at all! when i got to my friends house like 5 time's a week, we only play video games and cards, but i still feel that there is a void that i need to cover! my parents allways think that marks at school at the most importent thing in the world, but i don't want to be an old guy, get marryd (can't spell it right) to some women, that will make me discusted (again i don't know how to spell it) after 1 year, and having kids that will make me feel like ****, my brain at the moment is going to go BOM! if i don't find something to do with me life!
NOTE: what am saying it's a good or a bad thing, i KNOW that copying them is just wast of my life, so plz no say "it's a good thing, no need to change it".

Answer 1

LISTEN....I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM. But i found my way out.I have been watching anime for 4 years now I even watched anime when i was 7 years old..u know sailor moon,rurouni kenshin..gundam, stuff like that.You are kinda over doin it like i did I own manga,pictures,fanbooks,dvds,action figures,cds..and etc.haha i wanted to loose my eye to make myself look like an anime. My parents tell me to get a life, go outside. I actually made this little schedule saying when i will watch anime..like friday nights or mondays..any day but not every day. One major thing i actually did was go outside and walk and listen to anime songs..(I always have my mp3 with me) they were glad i was outside and so was i too because well first i was outside^^ and i still had a piece of my anime with me.and about loosing the arm thing(fullmetal alchemist) I understand..but i usually think...ed went through a lot of pain and suffering and i kinda imagine him in my head just saying be with your family instead...u have a family to be with...they won't last forever...mines didn't...be with them..watch tv with them or something..laugh. When your over a friends house just have fun. To your friends who might not know anime show them an opening or 2 that r funny..show them what u like to do but don't over do it...u don't want the same thing happening to them lol. BUT listen....I can see anime is a part of u..ok that's fine I love it as well..but know i made my family a priority and anime is right behind them...haha i also went into church^^but i'm not that religious it's just good to hear a bible study or 2. SCHOOL OMG I was an honor roll student for 4 years but i let anime get in my way..I feel so bad........but then i thought.........how am i going to go to tokyo without money..and I'm a failure in life...NOPE!!! no way I want to get a house decorate it with my designs..and a little anime poster or 2 and BAM lol my life is perfect..go to college work hard..in the end it will be worth it............screw up your grades in school and well.. your screwed...............then when all of my goals have come true...i will picture every anime character i have watched in my head saying................good job.

Answer 2

First up, use paragraphs - very important.





I'm not sure how to answer this question; you need to organise your thoughts before you write them down because you're posting a whole bunch of scattered questions at once. What's the one question you really want to ask?



You're probably right about there being a void; you're nearly 14 so you need to do stuff and go places. Maybe if you hate the city you could think about going to live in a small town when you are older; just four years from now it will be up to you.



There's a ton of things I might type but I don't think you'd really have the attention span for it; you're a young teen and you want a quick solution to something that takes years to figure out; there's no cure for being a teenager.



For what it's worth I'm a lot older than you but I'm still an animé fanatic.

Answer 3

The reason why you are so obsessed with anime is because you don't want to stop. You're bored, and you like the mindless entertainment it brings to you. But you have to know that whenever you get addicted to something, there comes a time where you need to STOP. DOING. IT. You're taking your obsession way too far. If you barely get out of the house, and you feel there's a void in your life, TAKE UP A HOBBY(Anime watching is not a hobby). Honestly, I can tell you're maybe 11, 10 years old since you can't even spell married or disgusted. You have your whole life ahead of you, and you shouldn't waste it being couped up in the house all the time. And since you're so young, you also think like a child. When you grow up, I guarentee you will find some nice lady, get married, have a couple kids, and die.



So my overall advice is: TURN OFF THE COMPUTER, GO OUTSIDE, AND PLAY LIKE YOU SHOULD.



Oh. and don't cut your arm off. That's freaking stupid.



You asked this already too.



~Nipa!~

Answer 4

Look...Embrace your passion for anime.

The only void that needs to be filled is your own, personal happiness. Doing what YOU love is the way to fill it.

The world is lucky to have passionate fans like us, appreciators of what few can appreciate.

Embrace it!

Rather than copying...Create. Be original. Draw, write fanfiction, create manga, cosplay, learn about Japan, learn about the true history of anime. There are so many options!

I can relate to your situation: When I watched FMA, I wanted to be an alchemist. When I watched Bleach, I wanted to be a soul reaper. When I watched Chaos;Head, I wanted to be a Gigalomaniax. When I watched Welcome to the NHK, I wanted to be a hikkikomori. When I watched Wedding Peach, I wanted to be a Love Angel. When I watched Boogiepop Phantom, I wanted to be a spider eater.

See? Maybe you can direct your energies and passion into creating an anime of your own, creating your own characters, storylines, situations. It is even more fulfilling than copying even what it great.

In fact, I think you are getting ahead of yourself thinking about marriage and having kids. The most important thing to remember in your situation is to remember today. "Sufficient for a day is it's own evil". Don't worry about it! Don't let the anxiety take over your life. I've suffered from a general anxiety disorder all of my life. The most important thing I've learned is to enjoy what you are doing at the present. Don't let your mind wander so far ahead. Stay here and now. Don't worry about others' expectations. Don't let them make you feel bad. You are obviously passionate, energetic, and in tune with the thoughts of others. That is an advantage.

Do you want to know what you should do now?

Truly...Have fun! Create! Live in the present! Most of all...Do what you love (and learn to pour it out throughout your whole life!)...and if that is anime, don't let anyone tell you it is wrong. Do what you love. It is the key to happiness; the fill to the void.

Answer 5

Find something productive. Some friends are really into anime that they try to copy the clothes. clothes are hard to shop for, so the next best thing is make the clothes themselves. I'm also getting into that. So, I think it's best to find something productive to do. My friends did by learning to sew and show it off at conventions. It's a good outlet for your anime craziness.

I don't see why your dad doesn't want you to take Judo. maybe find another martial arts thats not competitive. Or something else active to do. Take classes your interested in that could turn into a hobby. From painting to dancing to cooking to woodwork, find something that interests you.

The key is balance.

Answer 6

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